In moderate cases of PAS there is a significant degree of parental programming, that results in significant problems around the time of Contact. The PAS-inducing parent is very likely to interact with the targeted parent in a manner designed to create conflict so that Contact will eventually wither and die. In the moderate stage the child will display anxiety on a more frequent basis around the time of transition, and in all other circumstances. The child's anxiety normally passes once transition has taken place and very soon afterwards the child is able to relax and become involved with the targeted parent. The child's bond with the PAS-inducing parent is reasonably healthy, although they will probably share the same conviction that the vilification directed at the targeted parent is justified.
The following is not an exhaustive list, but other factors to consider in the moderate stage would include:
The PAS-inducing parent refusing to communicate or co-operate directly with the targeted parent. The PAS-inducing parent giving the child total control over Contact arrangements. Where the PAS-inducing parent talks of, or shows disrespect of the targeted parent in the child's presence. i.e. when the targeted parent calls, the PAS-inducing parent gives the phone to the child saying "It's him/her" or "It's your father/mother in a disgusted tone of voice. This would also include hanging up the phone on the targeted parent or silently handing the phone to the child. Doing and undoing statements - negative comments made about the targeted parent then denied. The child will feel compelled to keep separate worlds and identities with each parent. (continue)
